Puberty is no picnic, even in the best of circumstances. Once the sex hormones estrogen or testosterone kick in, there's no turning back: Here come breasts and periods, Adam's apples and acne. It's a tough passage for many kids, but for some — transgender youth whose bodies don't match their gender identity — puberty can be unbearable.
For one Oakland family, their daughter's path was clear from the time she was 3. Her birth certificate said “male,” but the child would always say she wanted to be a girl, and that soon became, “I AM a girl,” said the mother, who asked that her family's name not be used to protect her daughter's privacy. She recalled a day when the girl wept in frustration trying to fashion a skirt out of some t-shirts.
“Finally I just said, ‘Honey, do you want a dress?'' and they went to a store and bought one. “I literally thought she was going to faint or hyperventilate,” said the mother. “She couldn't sit still, she was so excited and so happy. It was a moment of pure joy for her, and also a turning point,” she said.
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